岸本順恵
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岸本順恵 P259 - If we try in half way, the result we get is also in the half way-
I don’t like doing things in half way either.
So I had tried things thoroughly before I suffer from the illness.
I had done thoroughly on soft tennis, cleaning, housework and the things I had experienced in Australia too.
And those lead me as I’m now.
But also I have learned to do so so. That’s why I work on everything I have to do somehow now.
After I over looked diet and sleep, it makes me to be able to try to my limits again.
Now I’m just getting to try hard differently from those when I was young.. - 岸本順恵
岸本順恵 P267-326
Kenjyo san was bullied by his friends when he was a junior high school student and when he was an elementary student.
About myself, it was okay when I was a junior high student but I had a very hard time when I was an elementary student.
I have recollected the bad times by reading Kenjyo san’ story.
I had had terrible hives for long time.
When I read Kenjyo san” bad times, I recall my bad memories as well.
So I can’t continue reading the story anymore now.
To do not increase those people like Kenjyo san or I had experienced, I give pay attention when I communicate with them.
It may be natural that the elementary students communicate with their friends by their desire.
So I think the adult people see their relationships go better.. - 岸本順恵
岸本順恵 勝負眼 藤田晋著
P14 大学に入って東京に出てきた時、最も嬉しかったのは街に１人で入れるフリー麻雀があったこと。
今は闇バイトなど、男性も危険なことが沢山世の中に散りばめられているが、
藤田さんや私が大学生の頃はまだマシだったかもしれない。
だけど、それでも女性が麻雀屋に1人で入ることはなかなかできない。
それでも入る女性は危険を伴うリスクを背負って当時も今も入店しなければならないのは、日本社会はそう言うものだと私は考えている。
そう言う意味では、力のある男性は入れる世界が沢山だと思う。
一般的に、男性の麻雀屋は女性の何人かで行くカフェみたいなものだろうか。
女性はお喋り好きだし。それがコミュニケーションになる。
男性は麻雀することでコミュニケーションする。
女性からみて男性は不思議な生物だ。
ま、女性にも色んな方々がいるのも事実だが。。 - 岸本順恵
岸本順恵 The Match Eyes by Susumu Fujita
P14. It was the happiest thing that there was a Majan which I could enter there only by myself.
There exists like darkness part time job that is dangerous for the male people in the world now.
But I think it was better when Fujita san or I were a college student.
But it’s a little hard to enter a Majan shop by only a female person now.
However the Japanese society is that the female people who enter the Majan shop only by herself must be careful.
Within the means, the strong male people have lots of choice in their world.
Generally Majan shop is as the cafe for females?
Females love chatting and those connect to communication each other.
For males to play Majan makes males to communicate.
By seeing males as a female, they’re curious lives.
Though there are a variety of females existing.. - 岸本順恵
岸本順恵 P19 「何が起きても自分のせい」
この考え方はととも大事である。
特に組織の上に立つ人達は、この考えを持っていないといけないと思う。
だけど、私はこの考えに理不尽さを感じた時もあった。
高校の時ソフトテニスをしていた時の出来事だ。
腰の腰椎分離症になった時があった。
所謂、疲労骨折だ。
もう、この時は本気でソフトテニスを辞めたかった。
あんなに厳しい練習しても、
全国で勝てることはなかった。
ある時、ペアの相方がミスをして、
私がそのミスを咎める仕草・態度をしたら、
顧問に叱られた。
私は腰を疲労骨折して、
顧問にも退部したい旨をはっきりと伝えたのだが、
辞めさせてもらえなかった。
なら、全国で勝たせてくださいよ、と、今でも当時の顧問に言いたい。
私はソフトテニスでの勝ちにこだわっていたけど、
頑張れば体が悲鳴をあげるし、
私が頑張らなければ勝てないし、、
負ける要素で板挟みだった。
あの時の顧問の態度には、私の希望を、
阻害された。
疲労骨折まえまでは、全部私が責任を持つ。ぐらいの意気込みだったが、
責任を持てない時もある。と言うのは私の持論だ。
だけど、その後、私は自分で責任を持つべくオ〜ストラリアに渡った - 岸本順恵
岸本順恵 P19 「Even whatever happens, it’s my fault 」
This thinking is very important.
Especially the people who are in high status should have this mindset.
But I had the time when I felt absurd from this mindset.
The time was when I had played soft tennis when I was a high school student.
I broke a small back bone from fatigue.
At this time I really wanted to quit playing soft tennis.
I couldn’t win in Japan even I had practiced very hard like that.
At a one time, since my pair made mistakes and I showed to blame it with my attitude.
Then our coach scolded me.
Because I broke my back I had told my coach clearly to quit playing soft tennis.
But I couldn’t quit.
Then I wanna and wanted to say please let me win in Japan.
I wanna still say that.
I was eager to win with soft tennis in Japan.
But when I had tried very hard my body screamed even though if I hadn’t tried hard we would lose.
I was in a dilemma between those elements of failure.
I had lost my hope of winning by his attitude at the time.
I had enthusiasm for taking all responsibility for the matches before the broke of my back bone.
But this is my thought that there’s a time when the people can’t take responsibility.
However I went abroad to Australia by trying to take responsibility by myself..